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Raymond Smalley, 80, of Pleasant Grove, UT formerly of Union City CA, passed away peacefully, surrounded by family, Monday, Aug. 16, 2010 at Timpanogos Hospital. He was born Dec. 11, 1929 in Lakeview, OR to Elijah Smalley and Pearl Anna Hartzog. He was the youngest of nine. He married Betty Joy Borden Hales on Oct. 23, 1971 in Pleasanton, CA; they were later sealed in the Oakland Temple, Dec. 17, 1977.
Ray served in the US Air Force during WWII. He was a telegrapher for the railroad in Oregon and later was a passenger agent and freight agent for the WPRR in Oakland, CA. He served in the LDS church as a Priesthood Librarian, Sunday School President, High Councilman, High Priest Group Leader, Counselor in the Bishopric, Bishop and Counselor in the stake presidency in Union City California. Most recently he was a Ward Mission Leader and was serving a church service mission as a Transient Bishop in Provo.
Ray is survived by his wife, Betty Joy, twelve children, Ronald, Penny McInnis, Lea Sessions, Marie Barnes, Deborah Pimentel, Nancy Bean, Mark, Raymond Hales, Renee Darrow, Richard Hales, Deanna Wilkinson and Daniel; 27 grandchildren and 22 great grandchildren and many nieces and nephews. Preceded in death by his parents, four brothers and four sisters, and by one granddaughter, Sarah Joy.
Funeral services will be held Wednesday, August 18, 2010 at 11:00 a.m. in the Timpanogos First Ward Chapel, 425 East 500 North, Pleasant Grove, UT. A viewing will be held Tuesday, August 17, 2010 from 6:00-8:00 p.m. at Olpin Family Mortuary, 494 South 300 East, Pleasant Grove, UT and one hour prior to services on Wednesday. Interment will be in the Pleasant Grove City Cemetery. Military honors will be conducted by the American Legion, Post 72. Condolences may be sent to the family at www.olpinmortuary.com
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Marie and Orbin Barnes
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December 11, 1929 ~ August 16, 2010
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Mom, I'm so sad to hear that Dad had passed away. I just wish I could have heard his voice before he passed on. I'm thankful that the Lord gave me and Dad the little time we had to get to know each other again I will cherih each memory of our letter writing and the phone calls. I will truely miss him. I wish I could be there for you I really do. I will stay in touch and if you just want to talk I'm here. I will never stop praying for you. God Bless You. I Love You Mom Marie. |
Gail Adamson
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My very special and dear friend, my heart goes out to you, as it has constantly the last nine months. I have many fond memories of Ray as my home teacher who gave me great and memorable advice. What admirable lives you've both lead, and it has been my pleasure to get to know both of you. Much love and sincere sympathy, Gail. |
Penelope Ann MacInnes
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Mom I am so sorry to hear of Dad's passing,I know how hard the coming days are going to be for you and the family as everyone deals with this loss. I know that my strength came from the Lord and still comes from Him and my relationship with Him when Randy died. I pray that you will feel His arms around you as you have to go on with life without the man you love. I love you alot and I will keep you in my prayers. Love always Penelope |
April JoAnn Salsman (Granddaughter)
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I wish I had know you better but for the times I had met and known you they are in my memory forever. You had a great smile and I remeber growing up and hearing about you from my mother. I wish you could have met my daughter Anya she would have given you many smiles. I hope grandmother that you know my prayers and thoughts are with you in this time of need. Though I will not be there to say farwell I will be thinking of Grandpa in my heart. God Bless and I will be praying for you and the rest of the family. |
Martha Patterson Clanton
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President Smalley was a wonderful man, with such a twinkle that he made me feel comfortable as a little girl in a very big place. I am sorry that you had to be parted for now - but I know that your family will be forever. Your family is in my prayers. Martha (Patterson) Clanton |
Lea and Mel Sessions
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I am so, so very sorry that Dad passed away, it's just so hard to believe that he's gone, I was really looking forward to being able to talk to him again once he was strong enough, and better to understand. I am so very thankful that the Lord gave us that time of being able to hear each others voices and telling each other I love you one last time, I will charish that breif moment for the rest of my life. I love you Mom very much and you have always been and always will be close to my heart. Let's keep in touch you are still and always will be my mom. We will be praying for you and the family. |
Tosha Walker
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Dear Betty and Family: I am sorry to hear of Ray's passing. He was a wonderful man who will be missed and who touched my heart forever. It was a pleasure taking care of him and your family and getting to know all of you. I wish you peace in knowing that you will be with Ray again. May the Lord keep peace in your heart and soul always. Love and Hugs! Tosha |
The Guardados
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We just received the news. Our most sincere sympathy for the loss of Brother Smalley. It came as a surprise to us, of course, since we are in CA and did not know of his delicate health. We are so blessed to have the knowledge that you will see your sweetheart again some day Betty. We will ever be grateful to you both for the love extended to us, and for Brother Smalley helping Vince learn to use the power of the Priesthood through blessings. He was patient and kind and Vince appreciated that in him very much. He was a wonderful man and will be missed by many others. Peace to you and your family, our thoughts and prayers are with you. |
Susan Rather
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Those of us at LDS Church headquarters who are involved in supporting the Church's program to assist transients and the homeless are very appreciative of the excellent service given by Elder Smalley at the transient office in Provo. This type of work requires wisdom, kindness, and the ability to assist others in fulfilling their own desires to make positive changes in their lives. Elder Smalley was able to do this in a very Christian manner. We extend our best wishes to all of his family members. |
Dave and Donna Morris
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Dear Betty and family, We send our heartfelt condolences to you. We remember you both fondly and have missed your presence in our stake. May you be blessed with the good thoughts and prayers of those who know you. Our love, Dave and Donna Morris |
Byron & Cynthia Lovell
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Dear Betty and Family, We just heard through Facebook about Ray's passing. We didn't even know he was ill. I'm so GLAD I was able to see you again at Virginia's a couple of years ago. You both looked Great! You two have been a great inspiration in my life-- the power of the Gospel in Action. I have vivid recollections of Ray being so faithful and being so committed before he got baptized and then he took that commitment to a new level--you both did. I shall always cherish my memories of the two of you and your family!!! We wish you and your family the best and hope you are all well and happy! Lovell you always, Byron & Cynthia |
Gwen Edmunds
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Betty -- I am so sorry to learn of Ray's passing. It appears that he was very active in serving others until the end. I am honored to have been able to work with him when he was on the High Council and was my connection for music and activities. I am sure he has had a glorious reception; as well, I know that he will be close to you, concerned for your feelings and that of his children and grandchildren. I am certain that you will be blessed because of your faithfulness, and that you will feel the peace that comes from understanding the Plan of Salvation. With love, Gwen |
VON & MARLIS GROW & FAMILY
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BETTY AND FAMILY- SO SORRY TO HEAR OF RAY'S PASSING. WE HAVE SO MANY GREAT MEMORIES OF YOU BOTH. ALL THE GIRLS CAMPS ETC... RAY WAS ONE OF THE BEST PRIESTHOOD LEADERS I EVER HAD. I LEARNED ALOT FROM HIM AND CONTINUE TO USE IT IN MY LIFE AND HAVE PASSED SOME OF IT ON TO OTHERS. WE LOVE YOU MOM---THE VON GROW FAMILY. |
Eric andJeanne Willyerd
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Dear Betty and Family We are filled with memories and tender feelings for you at this time of sadness for you. President Smalley was a joy to work with in his callings that he served so well in. His "just get it done" attitude and integrity was always present in every assignment. I learned much from him and have good memories from those years together. I remember fondly Girls camp years with you Betty, as hard as they were and as happy (as I am sure you are) that they are over, they were good times. I never pick up a deck of Uno cards with out thinking of you and Clark's Fork Camp. Please know that you are in our prayers.Eric and Jeanne WIllyerd |
Cyndy & Don Hardwick
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Dear Betty & Family, Don & I were so sorry to hear of Ray's death. We were so appreciative of all the assistance you gave us. My most favorite memory of Pres. Smalley was when he and Brother Botts were putting some new electrical plugs in the house. They were so much fun to listen to while they were working. We learned a lot from both of you. Thank you for your care and sincerity that you showed our family. Our prayers are with you and your family during this time of loss. Sincerely, The Hardwick Family |
Tom Wilson
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Dear Sister Smally, I was saddend this morning upon learning of the passing of your husband. I never got beyond the point of calling him President, even though I felt a true friendship with him. He was truly a lovly man. I loved my time serving with him when he was a councelor to President Gingery. I loved his plain and humble straight forward aproach to living the Gospel. I hope he didn't have a long illness. I hadn't heard he was sick. I'll always admire his dedication to the Lord, and serving his fellow Saints. May God grant you great comfort and peace through your faith in His Son, and the Fathers Great Plan of Happiness. Fair well Sister Smally, and thank you for the time he took from you to serve me. Tom Wilson |
VON & MARLIS GROW & FAMILY
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dear betty, i had to take a moment to write my own thoughts even though von expressed msny of my feelings as well.ray was really the most wonderful example to all of us. he plainly always did what he was supposed to do.that sounds simple in a way,but if we could all do that, what a world this would be!! i have learned so much from you betty,you were my visiting teaching companion in the early days of my marriage and family.i got soooo many blessings because when you are betty smalley,s companion you ARE a 100% visiting teacher.... no question. :) i can,t even begin to talk about the girls camp years because then the tears will really start to flow and it will be all over for me for the rest of the day... just know that i love you betty and my thoughts are there in pleasant grove. with love, marlis grow (it'll be a fun reunion when that day comes, won't it?) |
Elder Don and Hermana Kay Lynne McDougal, Madrid, Spain
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We´ve loved and learned from Bro. Smalley, and have been inspired by his diligent efforts to faithfully endure to the end. We send our love and best wishes to your family at this very tender time. Con amor y muchos abrazos. Los McDougals |
Mark & Janet Sylvester
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Our hearts go out to Betty and all the family at this time of separation and mourning. Our prayers are with you. With so many others we treasure our friendship and memories of Ray, knowing that our association and friendship will continue hereafter. We hold Ray in the highest esteem. His teachings and especially his example have elevated and strengthened us greatly. Life is so short and time passes so quickly! We are grateful to be in the circle of friends of such a true disciple of the Lord. |
Joe and Caroline Perez
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Just sending our love to you and your loved ones around you. You already know how much you mean to us. We have shared a wonderful friendship with the two of you for many years. You both have touched so many lifes for the good. Betty, I know that you will carry on; doing what you know Heavenly Father wants you to do. You brought Ray into the church and I know he is now giving you praises for that wonderful deed so many years ago. He would tell you to keep up the good deeds and for you to know that he will be waiting with open arms when your work is done here on earth. I will try and keep in touch via Email(with no attachments) Love Caroline |
Gary & Tracy Girardelli
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Sister Smalley & Family, We are sadden by the news of your husband's passing. He was such a wonderful and caring bishop to us in Union City. He will be greatly missed. With deepest sympathy, Gary, Tracy, Kelsey, Scotty & Lindy Girardelli |
Larry and Shirley Partington
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We were very sadden to hear of Rays passing. He will be missed. God Bless. |
Amanda, Rob, Brendan, and Nathan Morrison
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I was very saddened to hear of grandpa's passing. I wish I could've talked to him before he left and was able to still talk. I also wished he would've gotten better enough to travel out here to visit. It would've been nice to see him and you grandma. I'm grateful that he got to see me get married. I wished we would've kept in touch more. I loved him and I love you very much grandma. God Bless. |
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